how to find your style + the confidence to wear it


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  • Sophia Wong
    Sophia Wong  11 minutes back

    Ashley: We have these outfits that we really wish that we could wear, but don’t feel confident enough to.
    Me: I have many outfits that I really wish to wear, but my mom doesn’t let me wear them. ;-;

    • Kiera Noelle
      Kiera Noelle  23 hours back

      TRY THINGS ON IN THE STORE oh my goodness. 23 years and I just got this down this year. I shop for specifics (jeans, T-shirt’s, cardigans) and I will narrow down within each category (dark/medium wash, dressy or casual shirts, work cardigans to be embroidered or cardigans for dress down). It helps stay on budget and to not go crazy with your style.

      I love these tips! I just dress business casually/naturally (cotton, linen, natural fibers) and I had a lot of the same mindset. It’s gone well :)

      • Melanie Rxse
        Melanie Rxse  1 days back

        Thanks so much! This really helped a lot! <3

        • Ada Erman
          Ada Erman  1 days back

          You are so adorable! I'm subscribing!

          • Roobacca _
            Roobacca _  3 days back

            me crying in British because my only clothes are school uniforms

            • Tee_ Time
              Tee_ Time  1 days back

              Yes I feel you girl 😣

          • Sleeping Carrot
            Sleeping Carrot  3 days back

            Honestly cannot wear or buy whatever i like to wear bc of my Asian parents saying that i look like a pig everyday
            I have one pleaded skirt i bought with my friend that they let me wear sOmEtiMes bc its tOo coLd
            Lmao idk

            • Marilyn Broadfoot
              Marilyn Broadfoot  3 days back

              Lol my school has a dress code and on the weekends in kinda a loser so like i just hang out in my pj's all day so i rlly dont have a style.

              • Isabel Alexander
                Isabel Alexander  3 days back

                dark academia. preppy with a little grunge

                • Sophie Ezra
                  Sophie Ezra  4 days back

                  I really needed this ❤️

                  • Crazy Kate
                    Crazy Kate  4 days back

                    My style is literally anything I like and looks good on me

                    *oh wait, that’s what a style is*

                    • Katherine Mahoney
                      Katherine Mahoney  4 days back

                      This is such an wonderful explanation of the process, I do this exact thing

                      • Bonniella ASMR
                        Bonniella ASMR  4 days back

                        My style is just to wear jeans and a cute shirt with sneakers....

                        • Sally Hamson
                          Sally Hamson  5 days back

                          My style is boots, a grey sweater, jeans, and a green jacket. I have a lot of green jackets that it has gotten to a point...

                          • Leona F
                            Leona F  5 days back

                            my anxiety doesn’t let me wear something really fancy

                            • Lowlife Lia
                              Lowlife Lia  5 days back

                              Thank you so much, you've made me feel so comfortable with my style. I absolutely love my current style thanks to this amazing video and your lookbooks. Im glad that i have someone to look up to in a Fasion sense !!

                              • julianna moore
                                julianna moore  5 days back

                                6:51 what is ur bi-polar and u don't know which personality to reflect lmao

                                • { kaylapitter }
                                  { kaylapitter }  5 days back

                                  *me having 2 tee shirts

                                  "Ah yes, time to assess"

                                  • Ice Cream
                                    Ice Cream  5 days back

                                    I relate a lot to when some1 says ohhh look who's wearing a dress today like it's so... annoying in a way cuz I'm just trying to experiment yanno

                                    • Charlie
                                      Charlie  6 days back

                                      I respect everything you said but I refuse to give up my cute shoes bc of my lifestyle/retail worker feet !! They're cute and I love them !!!

                                      • Lori Bedard
                                        Lori Bedard  6 days back

                                        If I don’t know what to wear I just put on jeans and a sweater. Light jeans with a dark sweater or dark jeans with a light sweater is awesome.

                                        • Tiaphar
                                          Tiaphar  6 days back

                                          Thx this helped alot!

                                          • Nicole Lizama
                                            Nicole Lizama  7 days back

                                            I don’t know your background

                                            • elen.a.h
                                              elen.a.h  1 weeks back

                                              thank you for this video 💕

                                              • sunflower skies
                                                sunflower skies  1 weeks back

                                                i don’t know where to get clothes frommmmm

                                                • Antonia Caragea
                                                  Antonia Caragea  1 weeks back

                                                  what if i’m too afraid to radically change my style and can’t bare the comments in the process because i’m already insecure?

                                                  • Revanne S
                                                    Revanne S  1 weeks back

                                                    The problem is not in my confidence/style, I think I can pull them off if I have money

                                                    • Amira Bhayat
                                                      Amira Bhayat  1 weeks back

                                                      I have a style, but I’m not allowed to wear short stuff so it basically ruined my whole style so it’s great 🤠

                                                      • honestly ,sO TrAsHhH
                                                        honestly ,sO TrAsHhH  1 weeks back

                                                        I’ve been trying to dress in what I think looks nice but my fucking gut is stopping me. Especially after a little something called upper ab fat. Like I just wanna dress nice. 😔

                                                        • strawberrie
                                                          strawberrie  1 weeks back

                                                          my style is just brandy crops and sweatpants

                                                          • strawberrie
                                                            strawberrie  1 weeks back

                                                            just search up "aesthetic outfits" on google instead of instagram, it works better

                                                            • malyourgal
                                                              malyourgal  1 weeks back

                                                              my style is either librarian grandma or 70s hippie

                                                              • Samantha4263
                                                                Samantha4263  1 weeks back

                                                                I like only wear t shirts with a hoodie. If I’m feeling rebellious I’ll wear a cropped(ish I’m not that scandalous) hoodie. And if I’m feeling really edgy, I’ll wear a shirt and a sweater. 😱 I’m like so insecure abt fashion I’ll only wear that. Like, I am too insecure to even t r y o n smt I like😑

                                                                • YourKpop FanGirl
                                                                  YourKpop FanGirl  1 weeks back

                                                                  This is really helpful

                                                                  • Alexa Moon
                                                                    Alexa Moon  1 weeks back

                                                                    i literally just found u a few days ago and i— where have u been all my life

                                                                    • abi noyes
                                                                      abi noyes  1 weeks back

                                                                      I didn't realize how "modest" I dressed until my family pointed out that they hadnt seen my collarbones in months

                                                                      • Polynerdeia
                                                                        Polynerdeia  1 weeks back

                                                                        Btw, this is the video that made me discover and fall in love with Ashley 🌸

                                                                        • Star Blue
                                                                          Star Blue  1 weeks back

                                                                          I like that you talk fast!! Wish all youtubers did.

                                                                          • Siena
                                                                            Siena  2 weeks back

                                                                            "Look at your wardrobe first"

                                                                            *me and my 3 shirts and 1 sock*

                                                                            • Jana Banana
                                                                              Jana Banana  2 weeks back

                                                                              Exactly what I needed

                                                                              • Grace Min
                                                                                Grace Min  2 weeks back

                                                                                wait. what about your mom just buys your clothes and you don't like the clothes in your wardrobe.

                                                                                • Real human person
                                                                                  Real human person  2 weeks back

                                                                                  My style is struggling,coffee-addict, finger gun librarian.

                                                                                  • REvelvet
                                                                                    REvelvet  2 weeks back

                                                                                    All the clothes hat I own are not my style.....

                                                                                    • Min Yoongi
                                                                                      Min Yoongi  2 weeks back

                                                                                      i dont have clothes to wear to go shopping.


                                                                                      MY WARDROBE IS LITTERALLY JEANS AND A SHIRT.
                                                                                      NOW MY PARENTS ARE FORCING ME TO GO SHOPPING WHEN MY JEANS ARE IN THE WASH.


                                                                                      • d a n a
                                                                                        d a n a  2 weeks back

                                                                                        what’s ur Pinterest if I have one??

                                                                                      • Chlorine Bleach
                                                                                        Chlorine Bleach  2 weeks back

                                                                                        i like a more "creepy cute" kind of style but my only issue is my parents

                                                                                        • Megan henwood
                                                                                          Megan henwood  2 weeks back

                                                                                          My styles are
                                                                                          1.80s wannabe
                                                                                          2.basic af
                                                                                          3.90s wannabe

                                                                                          • Victoria West
                                                                                            Victoria West  2 weeks back

                                                                                            But where are the oxblood croc purse and oxblood shoes from???!!! Loved them!

                                                                                            • Victoria Lopez
                                                                                              Victoria Lopez  2 weeks back

                                                                                              Thank you so much for this. This video honestly means a lot to me. I’ve been trying to finally find my girly adventure side in fashion but I’m slightly insecure because I use to have a “tomboy” phase, so being able to hear these words really inspired me to start finding what I truly like and not be afraid and just wear sweaters to hide my outfits.